Mutual Reminding & Good Manners Challenge

Day 1 Challenge: Cultivating Taqwa in Everyday Life

“Whoever fears God, He will make for him a way out and provide for him from sources he could never imagine.” – (Qur’an 65:2-3)

For one day, strive to be mindful of God in everything you do. Before each action, ask yourself: Will this please my Lord?

  • Speech: Speak only what is truthful and beneficial.
  • Actions: Ensure your work, interactions, and personal habits align with your Islam.
  • Thoughts: Guard your inner dialogue—avoid negativity, envy, or arrogance.

 

Reflect on this:

Where do you struggle with establishing taqwa, being mindful of God? In what moments do you feel closest to God? If none come to mind immediately, reflect on moments you should feel closest to God and identify what needs to be done to make that possible. How can you make God-consciousness a habit?

 

Tips for Success:

  • Begin your morning by saying Bismillah with sincerity.
  • Before speaking, pause and reflect: Is this beneficial?
  • When faced with temptation, say Astaghfirullah, I seek forgiveness in God, and remember He is closer to you than your jugular vein.

 

Day 2 Challenge: Refining Character through Sincerity & Good Manners

“Indeed, the most noble of you in the sight of God is the most righteous of you.” – (Qur’an 49:13)

For one day, focus on sincerity (ikhlas) and good manners (akhlaq). Purify your intentions: Whether working, praying, or helping others, do it for God alone. Show exemplary character: Smile, be patient, and respond to negativity with kindness. Avoid complaining: Instead, practice gratitude.

Reflect on this:

Do you notice moments where your intentions waver? How should refining your character impact your interactions? What small habit can you continue doing from today that will improve your character?

 

Tips for Success:

  • Before any action, silently say: Lillahi Ta’ala (For the sake of God, the Most High).
  • Remember: “The best among you are those with the best manners.”
  • Keep a gratitude journal—write three things you are thankful for today.

 

Day 3 Challenge: Strengthening Faith Through Mutual Reminders

“And remind, for indeed, reminders benefit the believers.” – (Qur’an 51:55)

Today, be a source of positive reminders for yourself and others. Share a reminder: Send a verse, hadith, or uplifting message to a friend. Or encourage a good deed, like Inviting someone to prayer, reading the Qur’an, or engaging in charity.

Reflect on this:

How easy or difficult for you was it to remind others of something beneficial, and why? Did any reminder resonate deeply with you? How can you integrate this practice of spreading beneficial reminders  into your daily life?

 

Tips for Success:

  • Join or create a small group to share reminders weekly.
  • Supplicate for someone after speaking with them.
  • Commit to sharing benefits reminders

 

We’d love to hear about your journey with these challenges! Share your reflections, experiences, and any insights you gained by reaching out to us at letsgrow@sowsee.com